If you have an activity now or a way of doing things and you can see, feel, realize that it is:
- Allows you to be with your children, think quality and quantity time
- Unhurried and respectful
- Cultivates responsibility and kindness
Would you not do it and carry on?
How do we go about with our homeschooling? We discuss our week every Sunday. We have a bit of structure of things that we do every day. This is especially important for my 2 younger children (ages 4 and 9). A little play time in the garden after cleaning up the breakfast table. And then we go upstairs. My 4 year old either plays with puzzles or his Lego bricks. This is an activity he chooses. My girls sit down and do their academics, usually it’s Math. So far it’s my 9 year old who has a lot of questions about her Math work. The two older ones, ages 12 and 15 can answer and check their own work. They have a concept of what a test demands because most homeschool packages have tests in them. They do the tests and I encourage them to try it out. They value their score. I just listen.
- play the violin, piano or flute, etc.
- dance: ballet, jazz, hiphop, disco, zumba, etc.
- and sing in tune: karaoke, pop, opera, rap etc.
I was clear from the start that I was not going to bring school home. At one point we did try a bit and I abandoned it. I do not want to grade my children’s works, it seems to go against the grain of my heart muscles. So I settled that my children will have the label out of school youth. My eldest have accepted this without any stigma attached to it. In a literal sense, they are indeed out of school youths.
I also think it is important that my children meet other children their age and make friends that they can keep. For this, I found a group called Buds Girls Club. My eldest daughter started joining this when she was about 5 years old. They meet up twice every month on Saturday mornings and work on some project or activity. Some of the girls, like my eldest daughter, have moved up to Blossoms Teens Club.
Alex Hao teaches childbirth classes and pre-natal yoga in her tranquil space called The POD in Davao City. Read more about their “unschooling” adventures at Between Now and Later.
- Racquel of Guevara Homeschool Academy – Looking Into Our Hearts
- Chris of The Mommy Journey – Heart Formation
- Blessie of The Nanay Notebook – A Pure, Clean Heart
- Mariel of The Learning Basket – The Way to My Children’s Hearts